Or kick his cheating ass out on the street. No smoke without fire.

Well, I am not in any position to advise you and I wouldn't even try.
I only wanna say that I've known women like that.
And one thing to consider, well two, he came home early, not late, and she had her daughter with her.

I don't agree with Ding, sometimes it is ALL smoke.

Sounds like I am on his side, I'm not. I'm not on any side.

Yeah, I guess so, sometimes it is actually all smoke but if the trust has gone then what's left?

I tend to work in absolutes, if you don't have it all then you don't have anything.

It's ok Bingo, I don't know whose side I'm on. I have no idea how this is going to end, but it's good to know I'm not being a complete idiot for wanting to believe him.

Dav, you've got a point too. All the little things that have pinged my radar that I've dismissed after discussing them with him are now back in full force. I don't know if I'll ever trust him again.

He kept bringing up marriage. I'm not so sure that will happen now.

AC, sorry hun. I'm not really sure what to think as I'm sure you're not really either. I've known women like that also, just like Bingo said. BUT, it will make you suspicious and I don't blame you one bit. I would be too. Been there, done that. Too many things added up. Reason why I'm divorced.

First thing I would do is ask him to find a different massage therapist. See what his reaction is to your request. If it upsets you, then he should comply. Especially after what has happened. AND after a text like that, which can be interpreted as quite incriminating, he should show you anything and everything that you ask to see.

Do you get chinooks where you live? It's just started to get warm and very gusty, and by very gusty I mean >100km/h, and all the snow is melting away :(

What does your instinct say? When I think back to cheating boyfriends, I was constantly trying to rationalise my gut feelings on the situation. Had I really listened to myself, I would have figured it out sooner and ended things sooner, both times (I'm a slow learner or a strong denier or maybe both).

The thing that I see is, and keep in mind that I'm just some random Canadian from the internet commenting here, is that they ARE damning texts, and as the supposedly innocent recipient, wouldn't he, or anyone in his situation (assumiing he's innocent) seriously ask the sender to stop because they're likely to get him in trouble? If she seems like the type of woman to send texts like that just to get attention, then maybe he is just telling the truth.

Ultimately, he should know better than to risk pissing off a girl who often wields, or will often wield...? a rock hammer.

Gusty and warm or cold is a way of life, I can not remember a day without wind, Freezing temps one day roasting temps the next ... melting snow or any moisture applied to flats and basins of gypsum, caliche,and alkali flats...well lets not go there....not to mention elevation changes from plateu to canyon floor .....It makes every day a challenge...Pretty much everything I love about living in the Southwestern deserts !

Driving home from work today on the interstate and a deer jumped out in front of me and crossed my lane right into the path of an 18 wheeler that was in the lane next to me.

I hope it was quick and painless. I couldn't look in my rearview.

One of my dear friends is leaving to go live in Mexico... I'm going to miss her...

I am having tequila shots with her now...

PICS of Drunk Kerolady and friend NOW!

I was awoken and told that trick or treating might be taking place a day early.

Then called back and corrected to tomorrow.

And now I can't go back to sleep.

I only get these

My best friend is moving to Vancouver tomorrow.

Chalk it up to another Saturday by myself...

:/

I hear ya, sister. My weekends are usually spent in the house while everyone goes out.

My husband is working?... You can go out if you want to...

Well yea, but I'm broke, so I wouldn't be able to do much of anything.

You have a camera? Go to the park... take a walk... shoot pictures...

It cost nothing...

Now go!

Will you stop encouraging him to take pictures when he's on his own! We all know where this leads. And at the park even! He'll get arrested!