<rss version="0.91"><channel><title>How will you be remembered....  : RSS 0.91</title><link>http://www.plime.com/gossip/f/943/1/low.mtm</link><description></description><language>en-us</language><item><title>How will you be remembered....  : RSS 0.91</title><link>http://www.plime.com/gossip/f/943/1/low.mtm</link><description></description></item><item><title><![CDATA[psycmoe @ 3/15/2008 5:15:23 PM]]></title><link>http://www.plime.com/gossip/f/943/1/rss0_91.rss#q39</link><description><![CDATA[As often as I consider what my funeral will be like, I don't actually have any idea.  I hope that the creative cats have some fun with it, and I hope there's a drunken wake.  I hope someone who isn't related to me cries, I really do.]]></description></item><item><title><![CDATA[MTHead @ 2/21/2008 12:43:38 PM]]></title><link>http://www.plime.com/gossip/f/943/1/rss0_91.rss#q38</link><description><![CDATA[One of my goals for this spring is to have the matter taken care of &quot;officially' in a will.<br/><br/>I'd like my 'remains to be put to better use as a medical research donation. (lotta funky issues with my body)<br/><br/>I'd like my 'estate to be given to the potawatomi nation.<br/><br/>I'd like anyone who tries to arrange a 'memorial to do better things with their time.<br/><br/>How do I prefer to be remembered?<br/><br/>__vaguely]]></description></item><item><title><![CDATA[xiatethebish @ 12/15/2007 5:11:20 AM]]></title><link>http://www.plime.com/gossip/f/943/1/rss0_91.rss#q37</link><description><![CDATA[I want them to all throw a party and celebrate that I had a happy life, for the time I was here.<br/>No need to cry, it happens to all of us.<br/>Accepting life, means accepting death.<br/>Remember me by getting drunk and talking about all the stupid s**t I did, and how much fun I had doing it.]]></description></item><item><title><![CDATA[gratheo @ 12/15/2007 3:03:19 AM]]></title><link>http://www.plime.com/gossip/f/943/1/rss0_91.rss#q36</link><description><![CDATA[<div class='qp pad d'><a class="page-dull td" href="/gossip/f/943/2/#q15"><b>&laquo;</b></a>&nbsp;<i><b>Jerry520</b> : Well, aside from the Plimates I made, I've never met any Plimate in person, yet I feel like I know you all so well. :)</i></div>Yeah, that's an upshot of Plime - it really is a community.]]></description></item><item><title><![CDATA[Jerry520 @ 12/15/2007 3:02:26 AM]]></title><link>http://www.plime.com/gossip/f/943/1/rss0_91.rss#q35</link><description><![CDATA[<div class='qp pad d'><a class="page-dull td" href="/gossip/f/943/2/#q14"><b>&laquo;</b></a>&nbsp;<i><b>gratheo</b>&#160;:&#160;Wow - you've never even met me in person and still you say that... interesting.</i></div>Well, aside from the Plimates I made, I've never met any Plimate in person, yet I feel like I know you all so well. :)]]></description></item><item><title><![CDATA[gratheo @ 12/15/2007 3:00:55 AM]]></title><link>http://www.plime.com/gossip/f/943/1/rss0_91.rss#q34</link><description><![CDATA[<div class='qp pad d'><a class="page-dull td" href="/gossip/f/943/2/#q13"><b>&laquo;</b></a>&nbsp;<i><b>Jerry520</b> : Ditto for me. I hope that's how I'm remembered. Weird is a compliment in my book, honestly. You're one of the weirdest, Gratheo. :D</i></div>Wow - you've never even met me in person and still you say that... interesting.]]></description></item><item><title><![CDATA[Jerry520 @ 12/15/2007 2:58:46 AM]]></title><link>http://www.plime.com/gossip/f/943/1/rss0_91.rss#q33</link><description><![CDATA[<div class='qp pad d'><a class="page-dull td" href="/gossip/f/943/2/#q12"><b>&laquo;</b></a>&nbsp;<i><b>gratheo</b>&#160;:&#160;How will I be remembered...Probably 'that weird guy'.</i></div>Ditto for me. I hope that's how I'm remembered. Weird is a compliment in my book, honestly. You're one of the weirdest, Gratheo. :D]]></description></item><item><title><![CDATA[gratheo @ 12/15/2007 2:53:03 AM]]></title><link>http://www.plime.com/gossip/f/943/1/rss0_91.rss#q32</link><description><![CDATA[How will I be remembered...<br/>OK, here's what I've decided on so far. I want my body to be cremated, because buying a coffin and putting it in the ground wastes valuable space that could be used to grow crops. I don't want to dedicate my organs to medical research. Now, before you downvote, let me explain why. I would rather my organs be donated to be used as replacements, rather than performed research upon. Maybe that's just me, but I'd rather my organs help save a life rather than be used in an elaborate prank by med-school students (my mother went through med school, as did many others in my maternal family tree. They all pretty much agree that the organs aren't fully respected).<br/>As to the service, I would like something more approaching an Irish wake, where they stay around celebrating my life, rather than mourning my death. <br/>How will I be remembered by casual acquaintances? Probably 'that weird guy'. And that's fine by me.]]></description></item><item><title><![CDATA[Moe @ 12/15/2007 2:22:52 AM]]></title><link>http://www.plime.com/gossip/f/943/1/rss0_91.rss#q31</link><description><![CDATA[<div class='qp pad d'><a class="page-dull td" href="/gossip/f/943/2/#q10"><b>&laquo;</b></a>&nbsp;<i><b>craziesean</b> : circus midgets, fire eaters, bag pipers, lots of drinks,  a clown that does balloon animals, a few strippers, A wooden ship,  and a viking send off.  &quot;Its a celebration Bi**hes!!&quot;</i></div>Yea, throw all of the above into my send off as well.<br/><br/>Circus midgets...pure genius!]]></description></item><item><title><![CDATA[craziesean @ 12/15/2007 2:01:28 AM]]></title><link>http://www.plime.com/gossip/f/943/1/rss0_91.rss#q30</link><description><![CDATA[circus midgets, fire eaters, bag pipers, lots of drinks,  a clown that does balloon animals, a few strippers, A wooden ship,  and a viking send off.  &quot;Its a celebration Bi**hes!!&quot;]]></description></item><item><title><![CDATA[Moe @ 9/25/2007 12:23:13 AM]]></title><link>http://www.plime.com/gossip/f/943/1/rss0_91.rss#q29</link><description><![CDATA[I want to be cremated after useful parts are taken.<br/><br/>The ashes are to be split as follows:<br/><br/>1) A portion into a batch of homebrewed beer to be served at the party<br/><br/>2) A portion shot into space...not just the lame close earth orbit either...I mean VGer type space here<br/><br/>3) A portion made into a gemstone by <a class="plime" href="/redir.p?http://www.lifegem.com/" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">these guys</a><br/><br/>4) A portion placed into an hourglass so the wife can finally get some work out of me<br/><br/>The cremation should be as closely authentic to a Viking funeral as legally possible.<br/><br/>Also, I will have a ceremony held on the beach at midnight where a lawyer will meet all of my family members and they will witness a large box taken out of a van and placed on the beach and set on fire to be burned to nothing.<br/><br/>In said box will be all my worldly possessions liquefied to $100 Dollar bills, which of course will be consumed by the fire.<br/><br/>Afterwards, everyone will be given a note explaining what has just taken place with the words <br/><br/>HA HA<br/><br/>prominently displayed on the back of the paper.<br/><br/>Not that I have ever given this any thought or anything.]]></description></item><item><title><![CDATA[KingKoopa @ 9/25/2007 12:01:51 AM]]></title><link>http://www.plime.com/gossip/f/943/1/rss0_91.rss#q28</link><description><![CDATA[My funeral:<br/><br/>It's going pretty normally, lots of people talking in a big church until BAM! The lights go out. No one knows what's up, and then a strobe lights come on as my suspended corpse is on rope swinging from the ceiling marionette style (waving arms and stuff) and someone is doing sound effects for me &quot;WooooOOOooOOOOOO!!!&quot; &quot;Leave LOTS of money for the family OR I'LL HAAUUNNNNTTTTT YYYYYYOOOOUUUU!!!!&quot; etc.<br/><br/>Or, I'll completely plan my death so that I'm doing something awesome. Like, skydive and conveniently forget my chute, or fly a plane until it's out of gas, or fight like 8 blackbelts and see how long I last. Better yet, put me in a cage with a hungry grizzly, bengal tiger, and falcon and let me try and fight my way out. What flippin' awesome way to die...]]></description></item><item><title><![CDATA[favorablydisposed @ 9/24/2007 5:08:43 PM]]></title><link>http://www.plime.com/gossip/f/943/1/rss0_91.rss#q27</link><description><![CDATA[<div class='qp pad d'><a class="page-dull td" href="/gossip/f/943/2/#q2"><b>&laquo;</b></a>&nbsp;<i><b>gnikgnok</b>&#160;:&#160;I was wondering when <i>that</i> topic was gonna come up... <br/><br/>(we love YOU, FD)</i></div> okay, logged in as myself now, sorry for any confusion]]></description></item><item><title><![CDATA[imnotyoo @ 9/24/2007 5:04:42 PM]]></title><link>http://www.plime.com/gossip/f/943/1/rss0_91.rss#q26</link><description><![CDATA[<div class='qp pad d'><a class="page-dull td" href="/gossip/f/943/2/#q2"><b>&laquo;</b></a>&nbsp;<i><b>gnikgnok</b>:I was wondering when <i>that</i> topic was gonna come up... <br/><br/>(we love YOU, FD)</i></div>the first time we went over after nick moved out of molly's parents' house I took a picture of the empty parking spot where he used to park.<br/><br/>OOPS, I GUESS I AM LOGGED IN AS INY! <br/>Over at my mom's house using her computer and Molly must have used it last. Weird though, I clicked the link from my email but it still thinks she is logged in...Don't give her too much harassment about voting herself up - it was me.<br/><br/><i>Edit by imnotyoo: Haha! Now any upvotes you would have gotten from saying that will now be mine! Muwahahaha!</i>]]></description></item><item><title><![CDATA[imnotyoo @ 9/24/2007 12:52:59 PM]]></title><link>http://www.plime.com/gossip/f/943/1/rss0_91.rss#q25</link><description><![CDATA[<div class='qp pad d'><a class="page-dull td" href="/gossip/f/943/1/#q20"><b>&laquo;</b></a>&nbsp;<i><b>favorablydisposed</b> : your parents should not be there, hopefully they go llllloooonnnngggg before yoo<br/><br/>I don't really want to think about this</i></div>I was really depressed when I wrote that. I was pretty sure my funeral was going to be sooner than later. <br/><br/>Obviously plans have changed ;)]]></description></item><item><title><![CDATA[imnotyoo @ 9/24/2007 12:50:52 PM]]></title><link>http://www.plime.com/gossip/f/943/1/rss0_91.rss#q24</link><description><![CDATA[<div class='qp pad d'><a class="page-dull td" href="/gossip/f/943/1/#q21"><b>&laquo;</b></a>&nbsp;<i><b>favorablydisposed</b> : Nick is not invited</i></div>Old post, dork :p<br/><br/>And I hope he dies looooooong before I do!]]></description></item><item><title><![CDATA[Jerry520 @ 9/24/2007 11:22:06 AM]]></title><link>http://www.plime.com/gossip/f/943/1/rss0_91.rss#q23</link><description><![CDATA[I wanna be cremated and have my ashes spread over the Brooklyn bridge, so I can always stay in Brooklyn. As for any ceremonies, just a simple wake will do for me. Remember me as I was; all the good times that were had. It'll help them grieve, I suppose...just remembering all the fun that we've had. :)]]></description></item><item><title><![CDATA[gnikgnok @ 9/24/2007 10:57:08 AM]]></title><link>http://www.plime.com/gossip/f/943/1/rss0_91.rss#q22</link><description><![CDATA[<div class='qp pad d'><a class="page-dull td" href="/gossip/f/943/1/#q21"><b>&laquo;</b></a>&nbsp;<i><b>favorablydisposed</b>&#160;:&#160;Nick is not invited</i></div>I was wondering when <i>that</i> topic was gonna come up... <br/><br/>(we love YOU, FD)]]></description></item><item><title><![CDATA[favorablydisposed @ 9/24/2007 6:54:07 AM]]></title><link>http://www.plime.com/gossip/f/943/1/rss0_91.rss#q21</link><description><![CDATA[<div class='qp pad d'><a class="page-dull td" href="/gossip/f/943/1/#q2"><b>&laquo;</b></a>&nbsp;<i><b>imnotyoo</b>&#160;:&#160;My parents will be there. Probably my extended family. Nick will be there. Probably Jeff and Danielle. Stefanie, if she's not in school. Yeah, that's about it.<br/><br/>I want Boards of Canada played. And I want to be cremated.<br/><br/>Edit: The being cremated part is to be done only after all salvageable organs have been put to better use...</i></div>Nick is not invited]]></description></item><item><title><![CDATA[favorablydisposed @ 9/24/2007 6:51:50 AM]]></title><link>http://www.plime.com/gossip/f/943/1/rss0_91.rss#q20</link><description><![CDATA[<div class='qp pad d'><a class="page-dull td" href="/gossip/f/943/1/#q2"><b>&laquo;</b></a>&nbsp;<i><b>imnotyoo</b>&#160;:&#160;My parents will be there. Probably my extended family. Nick will be there. Probably Jeff and Danielle. Stefanie, if she's not in school. Yeah, that's about it.<br/><br/>I want Boards of Canada played. And I want to be cremated.<br/><br/>Edit: The being cremated part is to be done only after all salvageable organs have been put to better use...</i></div>your parents should not be there, hopefully they go llllloooonnnngggg before yoo<br/><br/>I don't really want to think about this]]></description></item><item><title><![CDATA[Wingnut @ 5/1/2007 1:01:49 PM]]></title><link>http://www.plime.com/gossip/f/943/1/rss0_91.rss#q19</link><description><![CDATA[I'll be remembered by the size of the diamond ring my wife buys with the insurance money.]]></description></item><item><title><![CDATA[Bandit @ 5/1/2007 10:37:14 AM]]></title><link>http://www.plime.com/gossip/f/943/1/rss0_91.rss#q18</link><description><![CDATA[I just got back from attending my Mother's funeral.  <br/><br/>She lived almost 84 years.  She was the mother of 5 children, the grandmother of 5 and the great-grandmother of one.  She survived the depression, worked for the government during World War II and her Obituary was reduced to a paragraph about the size of this post.<br/><br/>Don't expect too much from your death.  You'll probably be disappointed.]]></description></item><item><title><![CDATA[steelshooter @ 5/1/2007 1:32:38 AM]]></title><link>http://www.plime.com/gossip/f/943/1/rss0_91.rss#q17</link><description><![CDATA[<div class='qp pad d'><a class="page-dull td" href="/gossip/f/943/1/#q16"><b>&laquo;</b></a>&nbsp;<i><b>VooDooPeacock</b> : I will probably be remembered by the size of the impact crater I leave on the sidewalk.</i></div>How high are you planning to jump from?  Is a JATO strapped to your car involved somehow?]]></description></item><item><title><![CDATA[VooDooPeacock @ 4/30/2007 8:46:14 PM]]></title><link>http://www.plime.com/gossip/f/943/1/rss0_91.rss#q16</link><description><![CDATA[I will probably be remembered by the size of the impact crater I leave on the sidewalk.]]></description></item><item><title><![CDATA[VooDooPeacock @ 4/30/2007 8:28:28 PM]]></title><link>http://www.plime.com/gossip/f/943/1/rss0_91.rss#q15</link><description><![CDATA[I think you only get to go to the Body Farm if you die instate. <br/><br/>I had wanted to donate my body to science until I read that &quot;science&quot; includes your decapitated head being used to train plastic surgeons to do facelifts.]]></description></item><item><title><![CDATA[icepigs @ 4/30/2007 1:53:26 PM]]></title><link>http://www.plime.com/gossip/f/943/1/rss0_91.rss#q14</link><description><![CDATA[I want an open bar.  Free drinks for everyone.]]></description></item><item><title><![CDATA[imnotyoo @ 4/30/2007 11:53:23 AM]]></title><link>http://www.plime.com/gossip/f/943/1/rss0_91.rss#q13</link><description><![CDATA[Nick mentioned the spring thing to me before. He also wants his body used in as many pranks as possible. Like when my kittens died (they had a genetic thing), he wanted to put them in mailboxes. He also wanted to throw their bodies at kids on bikes (Don't worry, I didn't let him do either of those things, although it would be funny, but horrible on so many levels)]]></description></item><item><title><![CDATA[mennufer @ 4/29/2007 5:44:23 PM]]></title><link>http://www.plime.com/gossip/f/943/1/rss0_91.rss#q12</link><description><![CDATA[Thanks for reminding me about the Body Farm.  And to think I'm a Cornwell fan - pfft!  That would be seriously cool.  Of course, I would donate any organs I could beforehand.  If the Body Farm option doesn't pan out, I refuse to have my family shell out thousands of dollars just so my corpse looks nice and has a pretty coffin.  I would rather go sans embalming and in a plain pine box.  Also, no religious rituals at all for me.  If my family wants to have a mass said for me to make them feel better, fine, but I don't want a priest giving me the last rites or anything like that - I don't want to be a hypocritical corpse.]]></description></item><item><title><![CDATA[steelshooter @ 4/29/2007 4:05:48 PM]]></title><link>http://www.plime.com/gossip/f/943/1/rss0_91.rss#q11</link><description><![CDATA[<div class='qp pad d'><a class="page-dull td" href="/gossip/f/943/1/#q10"><b>&laquo;</b></a>&nbsp;<i><b>tundramonkey</b> : That is seriously cool!  I'd always thought about my body going to med students; the thought of it going to forensics never crossed my mind.   Either way will advance science, so I don't care where my body goes, I just want it used for something... useful.</i></div>I always figured that this might be my contribution to finding those sickest minds before they can hurt another.  If they can catch a killer before the next victim, how many people have been saved?]]></description></item><item><title><![CDATA[tundramonkey @ 4/29/2007 2:33:17 PM]]></title><link>http://www.plime.com/gossip/f/943/1/rss0_91.rss#q10</link><description><![CDATA[<div class='qp pad d'><a class="page-dull td" href="/gossip/f/943/1/#q9"><b>&laquo;</b></a>&nbsp;<i><b>steelshooter</b>&#160;:&#160;<br/>Except for the spring thing, this is about how I feel.  (I am considering spending ny death <a class="plime" href="/redir.p?http://www.deathsacre.com/" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">HERE</a>.<br/></i></div>That is seriously cool!  I'd always thought about my body going to med students; the thought of it going to forensics never crossed my mind.   Either way will advance science, so I don't care where my body goes, I just want it used for something... useful.]]></description></item><item><title><![CDATA[steelshooter @ 4/29/2007 2:07:48 PM]]></title><link>http://www.plime.com/gossip/f/943/1/rss0_91.rss#q9</link><description><![CDATA[<div class='qp pad d'><a class="page-dull td" href="/gossip/f/943/1/#q7"><b>&laquo;</b></a>&nbsp;<i><b>tundramonkey</b> : If I'm in any salvageable state, my organs will go to someone else to give them life.  The rest of me can go to science - if my corpse can contribute even the slightest to advances in medicine/medical technology, then I think it's well worth it.  I mean, it's not like I'm going to be using it after.</i></div>This is your Brain...  <br/><br/><div class='qp pad d'><a class="page-dull td" href="/gossip/f/943/1/#q7"><b>&laquo;</b></a>&nbsp;<i><b>tundramonkey</b> : <br/>After that... I don't care if I'm cremated.  If I'm not, I think it would be cool to spring-load my corpse in the casket so that in the event I have to be exhumed the person who opens it has a skeleton flying out at them &quot;bwaaaaa!!!!&quot;</i></div>This is your brain on PLIME!<br/><br/><div class='qp pad d'><a class="page-dull td" href="/gossip/f/943/1/#q7"><b>&laquo;</b></a>&nbsp;<i><b>tundramonkey</b> : I want my funeral to be a party.  Remember the good things about me and the memories everyone had with me.  Death is something that happens to your physical body; the spirit endures.</i></div>Except for the spring thing, this is about how I feel.  (I am considering spending ny death <a class="plime" href="/redir.p?http://www.deathsacre.com/" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">HERE</a>.<br/><br/>As for the spring thing, I hadn't thought of prectical jokes from the afterlife.  UPVOTES for creativity!!!!]]></description></item><item><title><![CDATA[rambler @ 4/29/2007 1:06:19 PM]]></title><link>http://www.plime.com/gossip/f/943/1/rss0_91.rss#q8</link><description><![CDATA[<div class='qp pad d'><a class="page-dull td" href="/gossip/f/943/1/#q7"><b>&laquo;</b></a>&nbsp;<i><b>tundramonkey</b>&#160;:&#160;If I'm in any salvageable state, my organs will go to someone else to give them life.  The rest of me can go to science - if my corpse can contribute even the slightest to advances in medicine/medical technology, then I think it's well worth it.  I mean, it's not like I'm going to be using it after.  <br/><br/>After that... I don't care if I'm cremated.  If I'm not, I think it would be cool to spring-load my corpse in the casket so that in the event I have to be exhumed the person who opens it has a skeleton flying out at them &quot;bwaaaaa!!!!&quot;<br/><br/>I want my funeral to be a party.  Remember the good things about me and the memories everyone had with me.  Death is something that happens to your physical body; the spirit endures.</i></div>I agree with you on all that, except the spring-loaded corpse bit - you've been watching the wrong type of movie, I fear.<br/><br/>I have to agree with most of you-all above, the funeral/ceremony is for the benefit of the people who stay behind, not for the participant.  And I would also hope that everybody would remember me positively (including some funny episodes, etc.) and not only by the method of my passing and the disposal of my body.]]></description></item><item><title><![CDATA[tundramonkey @ 4/29/2007 4:00:39 AM]]></title><link>http://www.plime.com/gossip/f/943/1/rss0_91.rss#q7</link><description><![CDATA[If I'm in any salvageable state, my organs will go to someone else to give them life.  The rest of me can go to science - if my corpse can contribute even the slightest to advances in medicine/medical technology, then I think it's well worth it.  I mean, it's not like I'm going to be using it after.  <br/><br/>After that... I don't care if I'm cremated.  If I'm not, I think it would be cool to spring-load my corpse in the casket so that in the event I have to be exhumed the person who opens it has a skeleton flying out at them &quot;bwaaaaa!!!!&quot;<br/><br/>I want my funeral to be a party.  Remember the good things about me and the memories everyone had with me.  Death is something that happens to your physical body; the spirit endures.]]></description></item><item><title><![CDATA[BrownTrout @ 4/29/2007 12:08:45 AM]]></title><link>http://www.plime.com/gossip/f/943/1/rss0_91.rss#q6</link><description><![CDATA[<div class='qp pad d'><a class="page-dull td" href="/gossip/f/943/1/#q5"><b>&laquo;</b></a>&nbsp;<i><b>Wasabi</b>&#160;:&#160;I'm not having a funeral, I'm inmortal.</i></div>Oh... so that was <b>you</b> getting hit by a car every 30 seconds?]]></description></item><item><title><![CDATA[Wasabi @ 4/29/2007 12:03:59 AM]]></title><link>http://www.plime.com/gossip/f/943/1/rss0_91.rss#q5</link><description><![CDATA[I'm not having a funeral, I'm inmortal.]]></description></item><item><title><![CDATA[AutumnLotus @ 4/28/2007 11:54:43 PM]]></title><link>http://www.plime.com/gossip/f/943/1/rss0_91.rss#q4</link><description><![CDATA[I've never thought about this before. I would think that all my family members will be there, plus any additional family members I might have in the future and some friends.<br/><br/>Cremation or burial - I have no preference. Whatever my family decides will be fine by me.]]></description></item><item><title><![CDATA[BrownTrout @ 4/28/2007 11:46:02 PM]]></title><link>http://www.plime.com/gossip/f/943/1/rss0_91.rss#q3</link><description><![CDATA[I used to jump out of helicopters in the Navy. When I die, I've asked to be cremated and have my ashes scattered out the door of a Navy helicopter at sea (one last jump).<br/><br/>So who will be there?? 4 people I don't even know (at least two of which may not even be born yet).]]></description></item><item><title><![CDATA[imnotyoo @ 4/28/2007 11:28:18 PM]]></title><link>http://www.plime.com/gossip/f/943/1/rss0_91.rss#q2</link><description><![CDATA[My parents will be there. Probably my extended family. Nick will be there. Probably Jeff and Danielle. Stefanie, if she's not in school. Yeah, that's about it.<br/><br/>I want Boards of Canada played. And I want to be cremated.<br/><br/>Edit: The being cremated part is to be done only after all salvageable organs have been put to better use...]]></description></item><table width='100%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='0'><tr class='lg plime2 trh'><td align="left" style='font-size:15pt'><b><div id='forum_header' name='forum_header'>How will you be remembered....</div></b></td><td valign='bottom' align='right' style='font-size:10pt'  nowrap="nowrap"> <a onclick='return false' class='page-dull td'>&lt;</a><span> <b><a class='page-selected td' href='/f/943/1/rss0_91.rss'>1</a></b> <a class='page td' href='/f/943/2/rss0_91.rss'>2</a> <a href='/f/943/2/rss0_91.rss' class='page td'>&gt;</a></span></td></tr></table><item><title><![CDATA[steelshooter @ 4/28/2007 11:15:02 PM]]></title><link>http://www.plime.com/f/943/1/rss0_91.rss#q1</link><description><![CDATA[I thought about calling this &quot;Describe your funeral:.  (Don't ask, just what I was thinking about a fe days ago.)<br/><br/>Tell everybody about what your funeral will be like:  Lots of people, just a few family, trading stories or crying about the loss (or celebrating that you are finally gone).  <br/><br/>What kind of things do you hope they will say, and do you think they will mean it?<br/><br/>I have already told my family that I think a funeral is to help the survivors get through, but I hope they will consider a wake, rather than a funeral.  I hope my family and friends will all gather and tell about the time I shot a lima bean out my nose, or the time I missed the test to be on Jeopardy so I could drive 200 miles to get my daughter. I hope that I do not die in such a way that my passing becomes a public event.  Family and friends only is the way to go.]]></description></item></channel></rss>