I now have place in my appartment...

Actually, my girlfriend left me this weekend. Seriously, I did'nt see it coming. I know I have'nt been myself in the past month, but I thought our relation was stronger that that.

It's by far the hardest moment of my life. I have this deep feeling that I am alone in this world. My friends were a huge help, but I miss so much this woman. She stays with her friend, and now seeking for a new place. I'm living with her stuff, and I see her everywhere.

I pray every possible thing to make her realise that she is making a mistake. But her decision her stronger that my willing.

I'm somehow proud of myself to be in a good state, but I have so much love for her.

No love is acquired.

I need you for some recomfort...

Thanks

Poor wildminou. I'm so sorry to hear that. It's hard enough but when you don't see it coming, you don't have time to prepare.

Take it a day at a time, and if you have someone in the area you can lean on, now is the time. Be with your friends, as much as you can, even though you don't feel like it.

We are here for ya also. :)

:(

I am sorry to hear about this.

Have you tried talking to her to see if there is anything that can save the relationship?

If not, just remember that the pain will subside and it would probably be in your best interest to get her stuff out of there as soon as possible. This way it will be easier for you to move on.

Hang in there man. Hang in. :)

Big cyber hugs sent your way.

If it's really over, then get rid of her stuff.
It will just remind you of what you lost, and you won't be able to move on.
Start hanging with your friends a lot.
Keep yourself busy.
It sucks so bad at first, but then you slowly start getting better.
But if there is a chance of getting back together, throw yourself out there and at least try.
You don't want to look back a few years from now and wonder "what if?".

Sorry to hear that, dude.

Did she have a reason?

Je suis tres desole, mon pauver wildminou. Ce vrai, ceci ne pas facile... Rapelle les bons moments...





pardone moi mon fracais est horrible

ces bon les patats!

I think I got it wrong. o.0

/dips**t

She's a fool for walking out on you Wildminou and you're better off without her.

NB - I reserve the right to retract this statement if she realises the error of her ways and comes back to you.

Thanks all, really, it priceless


The reason ?!? :

Might be weird to tell here, but mainly, she have serious questions about the "love" feeling she have for me. She have a lot of love for me, but she's scared that this feeling is'nt the one she's reaching for. It's plenty of sense when you know her, she's a psychologist, try to figure.

We have a lot of talking to do in the days to come.

KeroBeros32; your french is really good, now time to put accents on letter (maybe it does'nt work on plime?).

xiatethebish; I do not know were you got this one, you have put a smile on my face.

Actually, "C'est bon des patates"

That tends to be the trouble with psychologists... even though "sometimes a cigar is just a cigar." I'm sure she'll figure it out. I'm also glad to hear that the channels of communication remain open.

And, if it doesn't work out for you two, all is not lost. With over 3 billion people in the world, odds are good that you'll find someone else (especially considering that you're living in Montreal).

It's not so bad, man.

Thse potatoes are really good?


Anyways, Don't linger it's the worse thing you could do. I had s**t relationship breakup after s**t breakup but moved on and now I'm happier than I ever have been in my life.

Chin up it will be fine.

mind what you say, check your understanding, and control your reactions ... i can't say how good my advice is; i tried to 'talk it out' with my ex, but ending up quickly and deeply insulting him.

about your (x)BF's stuff ... i'd say go ahead and box it up and put it away, but don't get rid of it just yet. it could be a whole 'nother headache, if she decides to come back for it and found you had already unloaded it at goodwill.

Sorry, Minou. Hang in there. If she's not sure if the feeling is love, maybe it's best that she's gone. I know that sounds like a mean thing to say, but it's better for both of you to move on than preserve a relationship in which mutual love is no longer present.

In any case, however it works out, I hope it works out for the best.

And though it's certainly not as comforting as real-world friends; we at plime are here for you if you need us.

So sorry to hear this. :( I can offer all the trite cliches, or just offer you a hug.

{{{{{hug}}}}}

b***hes, man.

What you need to do is find a girl that looks exactly like her, bang her, and then dump her.

(The above is humor derived from one of the best dude movies ever: Say Anything)

Take my advice...having lost some 300 girlfriends and two pretty good wives, I've found a short time of sorrow may follow. Drink heavily for a week, wake up in a cheap hotel with some crack head hooker. When you go home you'll be well adjusted to the situation. Listen to Bornbad, I've been in love a million times, only to find out in the end...It's not all about you.

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I'm so sorry to hear that, dude.

I hope she'll come to her senses and realize what an awesome guy you are. If not, I'll see if I can convince one of the big grizzlies from work to visit her.

(((((hugs)))))

Faut souffrir pour etre belle.

Une expression qui a changé ma vie.

It is necessary to suffer to be beautiful.

A phrase that has changed my life.

Mr. Minou, je suis desole.

I know it's painful and I wish you the best in the world. I hope happiness finds you soon. *hugs super tight*

Je suis tres desole de ce savoir - tu n'est pas (est-ce que c'est bien pour moi de tu tutoyer? Je peux l'arrete, s'il te plait) deservant de ce chose. Je recommande que tu ecoute les choses que les autres ont dits, parce qu'ils sont tres connaisants de ces choses.

Shut the f**k up!