<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8" ?><xml><meta><title>A gathering, if you will- For those who dislike gatherings. A Gala event for those who eschew dressing up. It's a Goth Prom! : XML WIDGET</title><link>http://www.plime.com/plime-com/</link><description>You can use this XML spec to create a desktop widget or other application (i.e. Flash visualization). Please share it with us in our forum and we'll link it here!</description><language>en-us</language></meta><items><link><id>61679</id><url>http://www.plime.com/science/l/61679/1/</url><title><![CDATA[A gathering, if you will- For those who dislike gatherings. A Gala event for those who eschew dressing up. It's a Goth Prom!]]></title><description><![CDATA[A society of loners, jumping at the chance to get all dressed up in black, put on their finest shade of black lipstick, high heels and bustiers. <br/>No word on what the women will be wearing.]]></description><comments>22</comments><score>342</score><crdate>5/13/2008 12:44:31 PM</crdate><rssdate></rssdate><atomdate>2008-05-13T12:44:31+01:00</atomdate></link><table cellspacing='0' cellpadding='0' width='100%' style='padding-top:5px;margin-bottom:0px;' class='trh'><tr valign='bottom'><td><table cellspacing='0' cellpadding='0'><tr valign='bottom'><td class='minitabspc' style='font-size:7px'>&nbsp;&nbsp;</td><td class='minitabs lg'  nowrap="nowrap" id='tab-comments'><a href='/plime-com/l/61679/1/' class='plime2 td mn'>comments (22)</a></td><td class='minitabspc' style='font-size:7px'>&nbsp;</td><td class='minitabd lg'  nowrap="nowrap" id='tab-related'><a href='/plime-com/l/61679-related/1/' class='plime td mn'>related</a></td><td class='minitabspc' style='font-size:7px'>&nbsp;</td><td class='minitabd lg'  nowrap="nowrap" id='tab-share'><a href='/plime-com/l/61679-share/1/' class='plime td mn'>share</a></td><td class='minitabspc' style='font-size:7px'>&nbsp;</td><td class='minitabd lg'  nowrap="nowrap" id='tab-history'><a href='/plime-com/l/61679-history/1/' class='plime td mn'>edit history (1)</a></td></tr></table></td><td class='minitabspc' style='width:100%' valign='middle'><table width='100%'><tr class='regular'><td align='right'> <a onclick='return false' class='page-dull td'>&lt;</a><span> <b><a class='page-selected td' href='/plime-com/l/61679/1/'>1</a></b> <a class='page td' href='/plime-com/l/61679/2/'>2</a> <a href='/plime-com/l/61679/2/' class='page td'>&gt;</a></span></td></tr></table></td></tr></table><comment><id>257551</id><url>http://www.plime.com/plime-com/l/61679/1/xml_widget.rss#q23</url><title><![CDATA[gothpromcomittee @ 5/14/2008 8:48:46 PM]]></title><content><![CDATA[<div class='qp pad d'><a class="page-dull td" href="/plime-com/l/61679/1/#q8"><b>&laquo;</b></a>&nbsp;<i><b>mobase</b> :<br/>It seems that Goths themselves have come full circle in this- They will be there dressed in their finest black, each trying to outdo the other in an effort to be noticed.</i></div>You really need to see the absurdity in why we put on these five &quot;Goth Proms&quot;.  Firstly, most of us don't fit the &quot;goth&quot; mold.  We have geeks, darksiders, punks, posers, festies and others who bunch up at Hard Mondays.  If you called any number of them &quot;goth&quot;, they'd flinch.  And the &quot;prom&quot; nonsense stems from several sources.  Most of us are far from high school age, we may or may not have attended our own proms, and we're free from PTA oversight in our decoration choices.  We like to see people pull out their finest for the night, sure, but those who go there to be &quot;seen&quot; are as silly as our pairing &quot;goth&quot; and &quot;prom&quot; in the same phrase.  Look at this year's event title.  It was &quot;Contrivance&quot;.  When all is said and done, this was a chance to make one night special and lure out more than the usual crowd... and to laugh at ourselves.  Don't search for the the deeper implications of the event as it relates to goth subculture.  Better to go read a more blogs.]]></content><score></score><crdate>5/14/2008 8:48:46 PM</crdate><rssdate></rssdate><atomdate>2008-05-14T20:48:46+01:00</atomdate></comment><comment><id>256959</id><url>http://www.plime.com/plime-com/l/61679/1/xml_widget.rss#q22</url><title><![CDATA[kidsizedcoffin @ 5/14/2008 2:01:37 AM]]></title><content><![CDATA[Content aside, that is some of the worst photography I've seen in a long time.  There were too many pictures of other people taking pictures as well.]]></content><score></score><crdate>5/14/2008 2:01:37 AM</crdate><rssdate></rssdate><atomdate>2008-05-14T02:01:37+01:00</atomdate></comment><comment><id>256909</id><url>http://www.plime.com/plime-com/l/61679/1/xml_widget.rss#q21</url><title><![CDATA[heymrp @ 5/14/2008 12:43:57 AM]]></title><content><![CDATA[<div class='qp pad d'><a class="page-dull td" href="/psychology/l/61679/1/#q16"><b>&laquo;</b></a>&nbsp;<i><b>nickyrocks</b> : Yo, the club I go to is way cooler. We had a zombie prom night and some people had amazing makeup. I wish I could find pictures. I just have one of me. <br/><div class='imagecontainer' ><a href='/redir.p?http://i120.photobucket.com/albums/o196/learningtopose/m_fe8e3feefd19f0f0cb833f6fb69dddf2.jpg?' rel='nofollow' target='_blank' ><img  src='/images/null.gif' id='xhttpi120photobucketcomalbumso196learningtoposemfe8e3feefd19f0f0cb833f6fb69dddf2jpg' style='border:1px solid #CDCDCD;background-color:#E6E6E6;' alt='Click here to show image'/></a><noscript> <span style='display:inline;width:300px;overflow:hidden;'><a class="plime" href="/redir.p?http://i120.photobucket.com/albums/o196/learningtopose/m_fe8e3feefd19f0f0cb833f6fb69dddf2.jpg?" rel="nofollow">http://i120.photobucket.com/albums/o196/learningtopose/m_fe8e3feefd19f0f0cb833f6fb69dddf2.jpg?</a></span></noscript></div><script>forumimage('http://i120.photobucket.com/albums/o196/learningtopose/m_fe8e3feefd19f0f0cb833f6fb69dddf2.jpg?','xhttpi120photobucketcomalbumso196learningtoposemfe8e3feefd19f0f0cb833f6fb69dddf2jpg');</script></i></div>Yo, I fixed your link. :)]]></content><score></score><crdate>5/14/2008 12:43:57 AM</crdate><rssdate></rssdate><atomdate>2008-05-14T00:43:57+01:00</atomdate></comment><comment><id>256778</id><url>http://www.plime.com/plime-com/l/61679/1/xml_widget.rss#q20</url><title><![CDATA[nickyrocks @ 5/13/2008 7:51:08 PM]]></title><content><![CDATA[<div class='qp pad d'><a class="page-dull td" href="/psychology/l/61679/1/#q18"><b>&laquo;</b></a>&nbsp;<i><b>mewhitenoise</b> : That sounds cool, I hope it wasn't related to the musical &quot;Zombie Prom&quot; (my High School put it on and it was horrible)</i></div>No it wasn't. But that musical sounds amazing!!!! In my school we just did lame s**t like guys and dolls.]]></content><score></score><crdate>5/13/2008 7:51:08 PM</crdate><rssdate></rssdate><atomdate>2008-05-13T19:51:08+01:00</atomdate></comment><comment><id>256775</id><url>http://www.plime.com/plime-com/l/61679/1/xml_widget.rss#q19</url><title><![CDATA[Nunkii @ 5/13/2008 7:47:27 PM]]></title><content><![CDATA[The red dress in picture 9 is beautiful! I wish I had that!]]></content><score></score><crdate>5/13/2008 7:47:27 PM</crdate><rssdate></rssdate><atomdate>2008-05-13T19:47:27+01:00</atomdate></comment><comment><id>256774</id><url>http://www.plime.com/plime-com/l/61679/1/xml_widget.rss#q18</url><title><![CDATA[mewhitenoise @ 5/13/2008 7:46:16 PM]]></title><content><![CDATA[<div class='qp pad d'><a class="page-dull td" href="/plime-com/l/61679/1/#q16"><b>&laquo;</b></a>&nbsp;<i><b>nickyrocks</b> : Yo, the club I go to is way cooler. We had a zombie prom night and some people had amazing makeup. I wish I could find pictures. I just have one of me. <br/>&lt;img src=&quot;http://a267.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images01/59/m_fe8e3feefd19f0f0cb833f6fb69dddf2.jpg&quot;&gt;</i></div>That sounds cool, I hope it wasn't related to the musical &quot;Zombie Prom&quot; (my High School put it on and it was horrible)]]></content><score></score><crdate>5/13/2008 7:46:16 PM</crdate><rssdate></rssdate><atomdate>2008-05-13T19:46:16+01:00</atomdate></comment><comment><id>256773</id><url>http://www.plime.com/plime-com/l/61679/1/xml_widget.rss#q17</url><title><![CDATA[mewhitenoise @ 5/13/2008 7:44:59 PM]]></title><content><![CDATA[Hmmm....apparently goths don't have to dress up in all black to be considered goth anymore....or this gathering was open to non goths as well.]]></content><score></score><crdate>5/13/2008 7:44:59 PM</crdate><rssdate></rssdate><atomdate>2008-05-13T19:44:59+01:00</atomdate></comment><comment><id>256772</id><url>http://www.plime.com/plime-com/l/61679/1/xml_widget.rss#q16</url><title><![CDATA[nickyrocks @ 5/13/2008 7:42:47 PM]]></title><content><![CDATA[Yo, the club I go to is way cooler. We had a zombie prom night and some people had amazing makeup. I wish I could find pictures. I just have one of me. <br/><div class='imagecontainer' ><a href='/redir.p?http://i120.photobucket.com/albums/o196/learningtopose/m_fe8e3feefd19f0f0cb833f6fb69dddf2.jpg?' rel='nofollow' target='_blank' ><img  src='/images/null.gif' id='xhttpi120photobucketcomalbumso196learningtoposemfe8e3feefd19f0f0cb833f6fb69dddf2jpg' style='border:1px solid #CDCDCD;background-color:#E6E6E6;' alt='Click here to show image'/></a><noscript> <span style='display:inline;width:300px;overflow:hidden;'><a class="plime" href="/redir.p?http://i120.photobucket.com/albums/o196/learningtopose/m_fe8e3feefd19f0f0cb833f6fb69dddf2.jpg?" rel="nofollow">http://i120.photobucket.com/albums/o196/learningtopose/m_fe8e3feefd19f0f0cb833f6fb69dddf2.jpg?</a></span></noscript></div><script>forumimage('http://i120.photobucket.com/albums/o196/learningtopose/m_fe8e3feefd19f0f0cb833f6fb69dddf2.jpg?','xhttpi120photobucketcomalbumso196learningtoposemfe8e3feefd19f0f0cb833f6fb69dddf2jpg');</script>]]></content><score></score><crdate>5/13/2008 7:42:47 PM</crdate><rssdate></rssdate><atomdate>2008-05-13T19:42:47+01:00</atomdate></comment><comment><id>256767</id><url>http://www.plime.com/plime-com/l/61679/1/xml_widget.rss#q15</url><title><![CDATA[eLJay @ 5/13/2008 7:33:34 PM]]></title><content><![CDATA[I had friends in high school who were goth, and I have to say they were more real than any of the phoney baloney &quot;popular&quot; kids ever were.  That being said, I enjoyed the slide show of the &quot;goth prom&quot;, what fun!]]></content><score></score><crdate>5/13/2008 7:33:34 PM</crdate><rssdate></rssdate><atomdate>2008-05-13T19:33:34+01:00</atomdate></comment><comment><id>256765</id><url>http://www.plime.com/plime-com/l/61679/1/xml_widget.rss#q14</url><title><![CDATA[bunnysutra @ 5/13/2008 7:31:39 PM]]></title><content><![CDATA[what makes one &quot;Goth&quot; - I notice a lot of hot topic type wear and tatoos and peircings -- but that could be a harley biker too. what are they ideals? creedos?]]></content><score></score><crdate>5/13/2008 7:31:39 PM</crdate><rssdate></rssdate><atomdate>2008-05-13T19:31:39+01:00</atomdate></comment><comment><id>256676</id><url>http://www.plime.com/plime-com/l/61679/1/xml_widget.rss#q13</url><title><![CDATA[krash @ 5/13/2008 4:07:01 PM]]></title><content><![CDATA[Antisocial from what would be considered main stream or 'normal' does not truly mean antisocial. Goth is the same as any other click of people, just with different interests and different goals.]]></content><score></score><crdate>5/13/2008 4:07:01 PM</crdate><rssdate></rssdate><atomdate>2008-05-13T16:07:01+01:00</atomdate></comment><comment><id>256660</id><url>http://www.plime.com/plime-com/l/61679/1/xml_widget.rss#q12</url><title><![CDATA[shep182 @ 5/13/2008 3:35:28 PM]]></title><content><![CDATA[<div class='qp pad d'><a class="page-dull td" href="/psychology/l/61679/1/#q11"><b>&laquo;</b></a>&nbsp;<i><b>mobase</b>&#160;:&#160;I was a musician. If it fits and is reasonably clean I wear it. Matching colors is purely accidental.<br/>:-)</i></div>LOL... REASONABLY clean... ie... 5 min in the dryer with a dryer sheet and its good as new.... <br/><br/><br/>many levels of grey in there...]]></content><score></score><crdate>5/13/2008 3:35:28 PM</crdate><rssdate></rssdate><atomdate>2008-05-13T15:35:28+01:00</atomdate></comment><comment><id>256645</id><url>http://www.plime.com/plime-com/l/61679/1/xml_widget.rss#q11</url><title><![CDATA[mobase @ 5/13/2008 2:56:55 PM]]></title><content><![CDATA[<div class='qp pad d'><a class="page-dull td" href="/psychology/l/61679/1/#q10"><b>&laquo;</b></a>&nbsp;<i><b>coldbladed</b> : If you ever need any feedback on your outfits please feel free to send me a PM with pics, I'll get on it right away ;)</i></div>I was a musician. If it fits and is reasonably clean I wear it. Matching colors is purely accidental.<br/>:-)]]></content><score></score><crdate>5/13/2008 2:56:55 PM</crdate><rssdate></rssdate><atomdate>2008-05-13T14:56:55+01:00</atomdate></comment><comment><id>256628</id><url>http://www.plime.com/plime-com/l/61679/1/xml_widget.rss#q10</url><title><![CDATA[coldbladed @ 5/13/2008 2:34:19 PM]]></title><content><![CDATA[<div class='qp pad d'><a class="page-dull td" href="/plime-com/l/61679/1/#q6"><b>&laquo;</b></a>&nbsp;<i><b>CheZ</b> : That's a very close-minded thing to say. I'm one of those 'loners' as you so kindly described goths to be. I frequent goth clubs and dress up; I am no loner, nor do I dislike social gatherings. I know many goths who have a regular 9-5 job but enjoy dressing up to go out. Don't chalk up what you don't understand (or know nothing about) to be a 'potential Phd thesis.'</i></div>If you ever need any feedback on your outfits please feel free to send me a PM with pics, I'll get on it right away ;)]]></content><score></score><crdate>5/13/2008 2:34:19 PM</crdate><rssdate></rssdate><atomdate>2008-05-13T14:34:19+01:00</atomdate></comment><comment><id>256625</id><url>http://www.plime.com/plime-com/l/61679/1/xml_widget.rss#q9</url><title><![CDATA[coldbladed @ 5/13/2008 2:33:17 PM]]></title><content><![CDATA[<div class='qp pad d'><a class="page-dull td" href="/psychology/l/61679/1/#q8"><b>&laquo;</b></a>&nbsp;<i><b>mobase</b> : Okay, Chez. <br/><br/>Put yer pistols down.<br/><br/>Here's why I I find Goth Culture (as I know it) to be something of an oxymoron. <br/>At it's center seems to be a desire to distance one's self from mainstream culture, to be different, and to express yourself. Fine.<br/>Most Goths are going for negative attention. Also fine.<br/><br/>I find the irony in an event so celebrated for color, shallow emphasis on fashion, and to see and be seen in complete contrast to whatever values goths seems to prize. (This being the &quot;prom&quot;) <br/><br/>It seems that Goths themselves have come full circle in this- They will be there dressed in their finest black, each trying to outdo the other in an effort to be noticed.</i></div>All fads are based on people trying to be different from everyone else in the same way as everyone else. You aren't cynical about Goths, you're cynical about fads in general; maybe you just don't know it yet.]]></content><score></score><crdate>5/13/2008 2:33:17 PM</crdate><rssdate></rssdate><atomdate>2008-05-13T14:33:17+01:00</atomdate></comment><comment><id>256612</id><url>http://www.plime.com/plime-com/l/61679/1/xml_widget.rss#q8</url><title><![CDATA[mobase @ 5/13/2008 2:08:41 PM]]></title><content><![CDATA[<div class='qp pad d'><a class="page-dull td" href="/psychology/l/61679/1/#q6"><b>&laquo;</b></a>&nbsp;<i><b>CheZ</b> : That's a very close-minded thing to say. I'm one of those 'loners' as you so kindly described goths to be. I frequent goth clubs and dress up; I am no loner, nor do I dislike social gatherings. I know many goths who have a regular 9-5 job but enjoy dressing up to go out. Don't chalk up what you don't understand (or know nothing about) to be a 'potential Phd thesis.'</i></div>Okay, Chez. <br/><br/>Put yer pistols down.<br/><br/>Here's why I I find Goth Culture (as I know it) to be something of an oxymoron. <br/>At it's center seems to be a desire to distance one's self from mainstream culture, to be different, and to express yourself. Fine.<br/>Most Goths are going for negative attention. Also fine.<br/><br/>I find the irony in an event so celebrated for color, shallow emphasis on fashion, and to see and be seen in complete contrast to whatever values goths seems to prize. (This being the &quot;prom&quot;) <br/><br/>It seems that Goths themselves have come full circle in this- They will be there dressed in their finest black, each trying to outdo the other in an effort to be noticed.]]></content><score></score><crdate>5/13/2008 2:08:41 PM</crdate><rssdate></rssdate><atomdate>2008-05-13T14:08:41+01:00</atomdate></comment><comment><id>256606</id><url>http://www.plime.com/plime-com/l/61679/1/xml_widget.rss#q7</url><title><![CDATA[shep182 @ 5/13/2008 1:58:45 PM]]></title><content><![CDATA[<div class='qp pad d'><a class="page-dull td" href="/psychology/l/61679/1/#q6"><b>&laquo;</b></a>&nbsp;<i><b>CheZ</b>&#160;:&#160;That's a very close-minded thing to say. I'm one of those 'loners' as you so kindly described goths to be. I frequent goth clubs and dress up; I am no loner, nor do I dislike social gatherings. I know many goths who have a regular 9-5 job but enjoy dressing up to go out. Don't chalk up what you don't understand (or know nothing about) to be a 'potential Phd thesis.'</i></div>LOL... upvote for sheer chutzpa ;)]]></content><score></score><crdate>5/13/2008 1:58:45 PM</crdate><rssdate></rssdate><atomdate>2008-05-13T13:58:45+01:00</atomdate></comment><comment><id>256599</id><url>http://www.plime.com/plime-com/l/61679/1/xml_widget.rss#q6</url><title><![CDATA[CheZ @ 5/13/2008 1:48:32 PM]]></title><content><![CDATA[<div class='qp pad d'><a class="page-dull td" href="/psychology/l/61679/1/#q5"><b>&laquo;</b></a>&nbsp;<i><b>mobase</b> : Because of the potential for many a Phd thesis to had in that room.</i></div>That's a very close-minded thing to say. I'm one of those 'loners' as you so kindly described goths to be. I frequent goth clubs and dress up; I am no loner, nor do I dislike social gatherings. I know many goths who have a regular 9-5 job but enjoy dressing up to go out. Don't chalk up what you don't understand (or know nothing about) to be a 'potential Phd thesis.']]></content><score></score><crdate>5/13/2008 1:48:32 PM</crdate><rssdate></rssdate><atomdate>2008-05-13T13:48:32+01:00</atomdate></comment><comment><id>256592</id><url>http://www.plime.com/plime-com/l/61679/1/xml_widget.rss#q5</url><title><![CDATA[mobase @ 5/13/2008 1:34:54 PM]]></title><content><![CDATA[<div class='qp pad d'><a class="page-dull td" href="/psychology/l/61679/1/#q4"><b>&laquo;</b></a>&nbsp;<i><b>CheZ</b> : why is this in psychology?</i></div>Because of the potential for many a Phd thesis to had in that room.]]></content><score></score><crdate>5/13/2008 1:34:54 PM</crdate><rssdate></rssdate><atomdate>2008-05-13T13:34:54+01:00</atomdate></comment><comment><id>256586</id><url>http://www.plime.com/plime-com/l/61679/1/xml_widget.rss#q4</url><title><![CDATA[CheZ @ 5/13/2008 1:27:08 PM]]></title><content><![CDATA[why is this in psychology?]]></content><score></score><crdate>5/13/2008 1:27:08 PM</crdate><rssdate></rssdate><atomdate>2008-05-13T13:27:08+01:00</atomdate></comment><comment><id>256584</id><url>http://www.plime.com/plime-com/l/61679/1/xml_widget.rss#q3</url><title><![CDATA[phacops @ 5/13/2008 1:23:44 PM]]></title><content><![CDATA[&quot;Goth, making fat people interesting since 1981&quot;<br/><br/><br/><br/>Saw that on one of those &quot;motivational&quot; posters once and it just kinda stuck. :)  I know it kinda plays to the stereotype and I'll be the first to admit there are some really (really) hot goth chics out there.  But you have to admit, a good percentage of goth women you see fit the mold.]]></content><score></score><crdate>5/13/2008 1:23:44 PM</crdate><rssdate></rssdate><atomdate>2008-05-13T13:23:44+01:00</atomdate></comment><comment><id>256579</id><url>http://www.plime.com/plime-com/l/61679/1/xml_widget.rss#q2</url><title><![CDATA[phunky @ 5/13/2008 1:14:34 PM]]></title><content><![CDATA[haven't looked at the link, but you get an upvote for a great description :)]]></content><score></score><crdate>5/13/2008 1:14:34 PM</crdate><rssdate></rssdate><atomdate>2008-05-13T13:14:34+01:00</atomdate></comment></items></xml>