I'm really disappointed in a lot of Plimates after last night. I don't care if you oppose what I want to, and can do, by what you guys voted on, I just hate the way it was handled. I'm not some spammer or splogger. An occasional self-link to show off is what the Plimates category was created for on the news page. I still don't see how I was wrong, and I honestly think the way it was handled was really messed up, and not right. I was blatantly ignored, save for a few plimates. What you guys seem to forget is that a self-link is not spam, although they seem to have been lumped together. I'm not the bad guy here, for wanting to self link occasionally. I've said this before; I love you guys, you're like a second family to me, and I understand families argue, but this was unnecessary, and very ridiculous.

Jerry, I didn't state it in the other thread, but after reading the thread you kept referring to, I felt that even though it was done first and agreed on, I was fine with you submitting your stuff. I don't like the idea, cause it smacks of high level elitists favortism, but I won't downvote your material.

In other words, you have The Alton's blessings. :)

By the way, did you ever post it? Cause I never saw anything.

umm.. so yea.. I feel like s**t I have 4 female friends that I always hang out with and go to the club with and we've been partying hard for the past 8 years and I've have only made out with one of them like 4 years ago.. well The one kind of the ring leader is like a sister to me. We're always the ones in control and actually tell people we're blood related even though we're not.. well of course after this thread-



-That I started a few days ago.. I needed to ahve a night out.. well at tht end of the drunken night my "sister" ended up staying at my house.. keep in mind that she has a fiancee and 2 kids.. and me and her have never done anything ever b4.. well we were both drunk and I offered to sleep in the basement and give her my bed and she refused and said she wanted me to hold her b/c she wanted to talk and was thinkin about leaving her fiancee.. so we lay there and then she wraps her legs around me and starts kissing my neck(weak spot) So i'm a drunk b*****d I yea. it happened.. she's at my house laying in my bed right now and i'm at work hungover and regretting it.. although it was amazing.. there was a lot of sexual tension there from the past 8 years.. Am I a bad bad person.. and her fiancee, well baby daddy is a piece of crap that does nothing for her.. And I actually hate the guy b/c he used to hit her.. I don't want to date her and that wouldn't work at all but I just feel guilty b/c I used to always be able to say that we never did anything and not be lying but now when people ask me I still have to say we never did anything but I dont like lying I hate liars.. but I don't want to get her in trouble.. whoa i'm thinkin wayy too far ahead yea I'm done

Oh crap, I hope everything works out with you smarty.

I'd say your first step is to talk to her about it.

Yesterday I saw a man wearing brown shoes with white socks. I mean, come on. Get a fashion sense.

Hey! UPS says we gotta wear that. It's part of the uniform.

Sheesh...always gotta put down the workin' man.

UPS dude and dudettes wear brown socks silly!

I never posted anything, and honestly, levels don't matter to me. I don't pay attention to my level, or anyone's for that matter. I understood where you guys were coming from 100%, and looking back, I could have handled it better as well. I just got frustrated, and for that I apologize.I think I'll do what IrishDrunk and others suggested, ask others to post my videos for me, so the work itself can be judged, not who's posting it.

I swear if I hear the "why aren't you married" speech one more time I will implode or internally combust. Just because you found your honey in college, doesn’t mean that I am never going to find anyone. So I have high standards.... so sue me!

I hated the whole thing with Jerrys thread. It's hard to talk to someone you consider a friend in an interweb forum and get what you are trying to say across without sounding arsey aboot it.

I'm also sure that Jerry feels the same. Least I hope he does.

Like I said, I could have handled the situation better as well.

Davbob, you and me are like Hindu cuisine: No beef.

and spicy!

I can't find a f******g job!! I BLAME CANADA!

On the other hand, it gives me plenty of time to Pliminate.

Preach it sister/brother!!!

Don't worry...Marriage doesn't end it. It just changes the question to 'when are you going to have kids?'

Perhaps we married people just don't know what to say upon discovering you are unattached.

The other day, I struck up a conversation with a stranger and she was shocked to learn that I was married. "I'm 42 and I've never been married," she remarked sadly. My mind went completely blank and I could think of nothing to say except to assure her that she would indeed find the "right" person eventually and not to give up hope. I later reflected that my remarks may have been inappropriate, but I honestly didn't know what else to say at the time.

So without reverting to the worn-out "Why aren't you married yet" song and dance, or the pretentious "You'll find the right person one day like I did" slop, what should I have said?

"There are lots of things in life that don't happen like we expect or plan. Every one is different and that's a good thing."

Except for dieting. They pretty much all end up not working, and then you get fatter.

:)

It must be done:

"So, why AREN'T you married yet??"

Please have your next of kin post the pictures of the implosion. The should be really cool. (Oh, sorry about that whole "killed you for a cheap laugh thing".)

I hate when I get up to use the restroom when I'm in a restaurant with friends, and they mess with my food. What the hell? I just want to finish my food without having to worry about what the hell some a*****e did to it. Gah!